1. Find a Reputable Website
Read reviews and do your research before signing up for a website or giving anyone any money. There are great sites out there but there are also plenty of scams. Use a site with a proven record of success.
2. Be Realistic
Be realistic about what online dating with a foreign girl will entail. You will probably not find the girl of your dreams right away. That is OK. Talk, e-mail, Skype and do whatever else that you can to meet as many girls as possible until you find someone that you really like and care for.
You also should be realistic about your expectations of the women. There seems to be a stereotype of Eastern European women that they are all perfect, gorgeous and submissive.
They are, of course, not ALL supermodel material and, in modern culture, they are becoming more and more independent and educated. Don’t rely on stereotypes to guide you. Get to know each woman individually and be reasonable about what you expect her to look or act like.
3. Be Cautious
Always be careful about sharing personal information and never give money to someone that you do not know. Though there are many wonderful women to meet online there are also predators looking to take you for whatever you have. Don’t get overeager and become blinded by a scammer trying to get your credit card information or use you for a free ride to America.
4. Be Prepared to Spend Money
You will need to travel to meet her, get her visa and more. You will probably have to spend at least $7,000 in all. This is a big investment but if you are truly in love then it will be worth it.
Just make sure you are ready to spend that kind of money and never spend more money than you have or put yourself into massive debt. Use common sense when it comes to finances. Once again, don’t become blinded by your desire for love and marriage.
5. Be Respectful of Her Culture
You should take the time to learn about her culture and some of her language. Just as you would hope that she would embrace your beliefs, traditions and values you should do the same for her.
If she moves to America to live with you she will be sacrificing a great deal of her life. She will not be able to see her family as often as she may like and she may not be able to enjoy the foods, traditions and other things that matter to her a great deal.
It will be extremely helpful to her if she feels like you embrace and respect her culture.
6. Proposing Only When You are READY
Don’t propose unless you truly want to and you are ready. Don’t ever propose because you feel like you have to or like you should. If you travel to visit her, you may feel a certain obligation to pop the question but do not do it if you don’t really and truly feel that she is the woman for you.