Are you looking for safety advice when going overseas to meet a sexy and very caring girl? Are you planning your first meeting with a girl you are dating online? Many things have been said about online dating services and overseas meetings with online dates.
Personally, I think the most important issue to consider is our own safety in this situation. Take a look to this article and you will find some things you may want to consider or re-consider when you are going overseas to meet your online girlfriend for the first time.
1. Meet in a public place
Never ever meet in a private location for the first time with someone you have only met online. Pick a chilled public place such as a coffee shop or a restaurant, where you can have a perfect environment for a conversation. You want to be able to have other people around in case something is needed.
In order to preserve your and her safety, you should both agree in meet in public. If your date insists in meeting in private start wondering why. When you get to the place, you may want to tell someone in the staff about your situation, so they will be aware and also give you better service.
2. Take your own transportation
Both of you should get to your meeting (and leave) in your own. This way, either of you can leave any time if needed. You don’t want to be picked up anywhere, and you want to be able to leave in case something goes wrong. You do not want your girl or anyone local to know the details of where you are staying yet.
Renting a car or a motorbike is a good and not too expensive option, you can arrange all this online with anticipation. Make sure you have correct information and directions on how to get there and back to your place. Avoid public transportation and use taxis. Pre-book a car.
3. Tell Someone Where You Will be
It is not safe to leave your country and go to meet someone before all the travel information had been given to someone you trust. It can be a friend or a family member, is better if two persons have all this data.
You must provide them the details about your flights, accommodation, dates, moving plans and especially details of this first meeting with this girl. Arrange someone to contact you or be contacted after you finish your meeting by phone. Also, give this person information about your girlfriend such as profile links, contact details and even a picture.
4. Don’t go alone
If possible avoid going alone to your first meeting. Think about hiring someone to help you with the language and moving around indications. A guide from a local tourist company is one of the better choices you may have. This person can help you with many things you probably haven’t thought of. Good tour guide are very used to making people feel better and know what they need when traveling. haven’t considered yet. First at all hang out with this person and get a local tour. It will give you a bigger picture of the city and local understanding. The fact of having someone there for you will increase your confidence and comfort level.
5. If something doesn’t feel right
You go to your meeting, and you are expecting everything to be okay. What if it doesn’t? What should you do
? You should not compromise your comfort and safety for any reason, if something looks dodgy or weird don’t stay. If you don’t feel comfortable, don’t stay any longer. There are many polite excuses to leave a date.
You went there; you did show up; you did your part and you should not feel bad. Listen to your heart and accept when to leave. That is why, it is also important to have your own transportation and a person around waiting. There is nothing like having your own cool wheels, and a driver to impress the girl you are after.
Your safety is your priority and it should not be compromised ever by anyone. If you take the decision of going to meet this girl in her own country you should consider all safety issues and be prepared. Do not forget you are not going to be on your territory. Research about the culture and politics of the country you are visiting, more information you got means more chances for everything to go right. If you don’t speak the language, put in some effort and learn at least some basic words to help you move around, and have always a pocket dictionary.